Oolong Tea

When you understand the difference between A carrot, an egg, and a cup of Oolong tea.

You will never Look at a cup of Oolong the same way again.

A young woman went to her mother and told her about her

life and how things were so hard for her. She did not know how she was

going to make it and wanted to give up. She was tired of fighting and

struggling. It seemed as one problem was solved, a new one arose.

Her mother took her to the kitchen. She filled three pots

with water and placed each on a high fire. Soon the pots came to boil. In

the first she placed carrots, in the second she placed eggs, and in the

last she placed Oolong tea. She let them sit and boil; without saying a

word.

In about twenty minutes she turned off the burners. She

Fished the carrots out and placed them in a bowl. She pulled the eggs out and

Placed them in a bowl. Then she ladled the Oolong out and placed it in a bowl.

Turning to her daughter, she asked, "Tell me what you see."

"Carrots, eggs, and Oolong tea," she replied.

Her mother brought her closer and asked her to feel the

carrots. She did and noted that they were soft. The mother then asked the

daughter to take an egg and break it. After pulling off the shell, she

observed the hard boiled egg

Finally, the mother asked the daughter to sip the Oolong. The daughter

Smiled as she tasted its rich aroma The daughter then

asked, "What does it mean, mother?"

Her mother explained that each of these objects had faced

the same adversity: boiling water. Each reacted differently. The

Carrot went in Strong, hard, and unrelenting. However, after being

subjected to the boiling water, it softened and became weak. The egg had

been fragile. Its thin outer shell had protected its liquid interior, but

after sitting through the boiling water, its inside became hardened. The

Oolong tea was unique, however. After they were in the boiling water, they

had changed for the better - both the water color, odour and the taste.

 "Which are you?" she asked   her daughter. "When adversity knocks on your

Door, how do you respond? Are you a carrot, an egg or a Oolong tea?

Think of this: Which am I? Am I the carrot that seems strong, but with pain and adversity do I wilt and become soft and lose my strength?

Or Am I the egg that starts with a malleable heart, but changes

with the hat? Did I have a fluid spirit, but after a death, a

breakup, a financial hardship or some other trials, have I become hardened and

stronger? Does my Shell look the same, but on the inside am I bitter and

tough with a stiff Spirit and hardened heart?

Or am I like the Oolong tea? The tea actually changes the

hot water, the very circumstance that brings the pain. When the water gets

hot, it releases the fragrance and flavor. If you are like the tea,

when things are at their worst, you get better and change the situation

around you. When the hour is the darkest and trials are their greatest,

do you elevate yourself to another level? How do you handle

Adversity? Are you a carrot, an egg or a Oolong tea?

May you have enough happiness to make you sweet, enough

trials to make you strong, enough sorrow to keep you human and enough hope to

make you happy.

The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best

of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their Way.

The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten

past; you can't go forward in life until you had let go of your past failures

and heartaches.

When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you

was smiling.

Live your life so at the end, you're the one who is

smiling and everyone around you may be crying.

May we all be like the OOLONG TEA !!!!!!

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Tanda Sayang....

1. Apabila wanita menyukai seseorang lelaki, biasanya mereka akan rajin menghubungi atau menghantar khidmat pesanan ringkas (SMS) kepada si dia. Kadang-kadang bertanya khabar atau sekadar menghantar ayat manis...

2. Wanita akan lebih menunjukkan keprihatinan terhadap si dia. Jika lelaki itu mengalami masalah, mereka akan menjadi pendengar yang baik dan membantu sedaya upaya.

3. Lazimnya, wanita akan berkongsi dengan lelaki mengenai perkara yang berlaku dalam hidupnya hari-hari. Sama ada peristiwa gembira atau sedih. Jika hendak ke mana-manapun, kalau boleh mahu si dia menemani.

4. Apabila berjauhan dengan lelaki yang disukai, wanita akan kelihatan sedih saja. Maklumlah, menanggung rindu!

5. Ada juga wanita suka memberi hadiah kepada lelaki yang dipuja. Bukan hanya pada hari istimewa seperti hari lahir, pergi ke mana-manapun pasti mereka akan belikan cenderahati. Itulah tanda sayang!

taBoO

1. Bercakap mengenai bekas teman wanita.

Jika perhubungan yang menjadi topik perbincangan, jangan sesekali bangkitkan soal teman wanita lama. Bekas teman wanita anda begitulah, beginilah... Elak bercakap mengenai perkara ini bila anda dalam proses menjalin hubungan serius dengan seseorang.

2. Bermegah-megah dengan apa yang dimiliki.

Tidak perlulah anda sibuk bercerita mengenai keluarga anda yang kaya, gaji tinggi atau kereta mewah yang dimiliki dengan harapan ‘memancing’ hati wanita. Zaman sekarang, kebanyakan wanita mempunyai kerjaya bagus malah ada yang memiliki pendapatan lebih banyak daripada lelaki. Ingat, bukan semua wanita bersifat materialistik!

3. Menipu.

Jangan sesekali menipu hanya untuk memikat wanita yang digilai atau cuba mengada-adakan benda yang tiada. Kalau wanita itu tahu anda sebenarnya menipu, rosaklah semuanya!

4. Terlalu selesa.

Usah tunjukkan anda begitu selesa atau terlampau bersahaja hingga tiada rasa segan-silu melakukan perkara yang tidak sepatutnya dibuat di depan gadis. Contohnya, sendawa dengan kuat, cungkil gigi atau bercerita mengenai tabiat buruk anda. Ya, memang kebanyakan wanita ingin teman lelaki mereka menjadi diri sendiri tapi jangan sampai memperbodohkan diri pula. Tanggapan pertama itu penting, okay?

5. Belanja.

Pastikan anda yang menjelaskan bil pada pertemuan pertama. Bukan bermaksud wanita itu materialistik hingga anda perlu menanggung perbelanjaan bila keluar bersama, tapi bagi saya, untuk pertemuan pertama, anda perlu jadi gentleman dan menjelaskan bil. Tapi bukan setiap masa pula ya!

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ne part dua next daynya...aku smbng aktiviti berbasikal lasak aku...hari kedua ne tak ada sgt byk berbasikal kt jln dan masok kawasan kampung je....hari ne dh tak adventure cm semlm cz masing2 dh penat....anyway ive alot of fun....))

ne masa dlm bus pas abis wat aktiviti....muka pn cm poyor hampeh penat....

ne masa kt jln masok kampung ke sg samak....smpt lg ek nk bergambar kuikui~~~~

ne masa kt jln besar perjalanan nk masuk hutan....sempat lg amek gmbr....as amek gmbr aku menyibuk jew lalalllaaal....))nasib tak ada kete klu tak mampoi kene langgar tak pn kene hon hakhakhakkk.....
gmbr kenangan bersama-sama kwn2 aku yg best gilos.....)) pas ne nk p mana plak beb?.....aku dh kebosana dok umah...bosan dok umah tak ada benda nk wat....((

bAsiKaL LaSak

this time aku nk smbng cite pasal aktiviti yg aku wat dgn kwn2....)) masa kt tj malim ne ah aktiviti yg aku buat he2....kayuh basikal...bkn setakat kayuh kt jln ke kembara masuk hutan lagi....adehhhh.....jenuh ah aku cm ne...ne baru namanya basikal lasak.....)) sgt best ok so adventure....klu awek yg pentingkan kecantikkan lupakn je lah nk wat aktiviti cm ne.... xsesuai ngn jiwang korang.....klu sape2 yg suka dgn aktiviti lasak cubalh anda xrugi....

ne masa aku n kwn2 nk kasok merentas hutan....besiap sedia nk masok hutan bwk basikal....nk masok hutan wat aktiviti ne kene pakai pakaian yg sesuai klu tak hhheeeemmmm lain jadinya nnt he2.....helmet wajib pakai bahaya tak pakai....safety first....ape2 keselamatan kene utamakan klu tak utamakan jgn ah sesekali berani nk wat aktivti cm ne....

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sila abaikan tarikh pd gmbr ne sbbnya aku lupa setting date camera aku hakahkakhak......pas mengangkat redah hutan bagai semuakan rest ler kejap.....ponat wehhh kt aktiviti ne.....tapi ok jugak excercises sikit buang lemak2 dlm badan aku ne he2....nnt aku sambung aktivit esoknya....